As moms, we know that every child deserves to feel safe, loved, and supported. But across the country, transgender individuals, children, youth, and adults, are facing increasing challenges, from restrictive legislation to harmful misinformation. As moms and caregivers, it's crucial to separate myths from facts and advocate for policies that protect and uplift trans individuals.

Myth #1: Kids Are Being Forced Into Medical Transition

Fact: No child is being forced into medical transition. Leading medical organizations, including the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Medical Association, support a gender-affirming approach tailored to each individual's needs. For minors, this often means social transition—using a preferred name and pronouns—while any medical interventions, if pursued, happen under the careful guidance of doctors, therapists, and parents. Puberty blockers, which are fully reversible, are sometimes prescribed to give young people time to explore their gender identity before making any permanent decisions. A study published in the Journal of Adolescent Health found that access to gender-affirming care significantly reduces rates of depression and suicidal ideation among trans youth.

Myth #2: Allowing Trans People to Use Public Facilities Endangers Others

Fact: There is no evidence that allowing transgender people to use restrooms aligning with their gender identity increases risk to others. A study from the Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law found no link between trans-inclusive restroom policies and an increase in public safety incidents. In fact, transgender individuals are far more likely to be harassed or assaulted in public restrooms when forced to use facilities that do not align with their gender identity.

Myth #3: Transgender Athletes Have an Unfair Advantage

Fact: The idea that transgender athletes always have an unfair advantage is a misconception. Athletic performance varies greatly among all individuals, regardless of gender identity. A study published in the British Journal of Sports Medicine found that trans women who undergo hormone therapy experience a significant reduction in muscle mass and strength over time, leveling the playing field. Many sports organizations, including the NCAA and the International Olympic Committee, have established guidelines to ensure fair competition while allowing trans athletes to participate.

Myth #4: Being Transgender is a Trend or a Phase

Fact: Being transgender is not a trend. While more people, especially young people, are identifying as transgender today, this is largely due to greater awareness and social acceptance, not a sudden increase in trans identities. A Pew Research Center survey found that increased visibility has allowed more trans individuals to feel safe coming out, rather than suggesting a rise in trans identity itself. Research from the Trevor Project has shown that trans youth who receive support have significantly lower rates of depression and suicidal ideation.

Myth #5: Parents Who Support Their Trans Kids Are Being Irresponsible

Fact: Parents who affirm their trans children are not being irresponsible, they are saving lives. Studies consistently show that transgender youth who receive support from their families have better mental health outcomes and lower rates of self-harm and suicide. Research from the Trevor Project shows that trans youth with affirming families have a 93% lower suicide attempt rate compared to those who lack family support.

Why This Matters

Protecting trans people isn't just about policy, it's about human rights. Transgender individuals deserve to live with dignity, free from discrimination, and with access to the healthcare, education, and opportunities that allow them to thrive.

What We Can Do

Educate Ourselves and Others: Share accurate information and challenge harmful myths when you hear them.
Support Pro-Equality Policies: Advocate against laws that harm trans people and push for protections at local, state, and national levels.
Listen to Trans Voices: Follow and amplify the voices of trans individuals and activists leading the fight for equality.
Create Safe Spaces: Whether in schools, workplaces, or communities, fostering inclusive environments makes a real difference in the lives of trans people.

Trans rights are human rights, and standing up for the dignity, safety, and well-being of transgender people is something we all can, and should do.

Moms Protecting Trans Kids: Myths vs. Facts